Archive for May, 2009

“Serves Ya Right!”

Friday, May 29th, 2009

 

“Serves ya right!”

Have you ever said those words? I have – mostly to my siblings when they broke the family rules or got into trouble for picking on me when we were kids. Even now, as a grown woman, I admit I feel like spouting them when someone wrongs me and later falls into a difficult time. Oh, the wickedness of the human heart.

If anyone had reason to say “Serves ya right,” it was David. Saul had chased him, thrown spears at him, taken his wife from him and married her to another man. Saul’s jealousy had nearly killed him countless times, forced him into hiding, and dethroned him from being a celebrated military leader to the commander of a few hundred motley men.

Then Saul died in battle.

What was David’s response? He had every reason to say “Serves ya right!” but he refused. Instead, he avenged Saul’s death by taking the life of the man who said he’d killed him. He composed a funeral song for Saul (and Jonathan) and commanded that the entire population of Judah learn it. He said Saul was beloved and gracious. He called him a mighty hero. And he promised to reward the men who gave him a decent burial (2 Sam. 1:15-2:6). Amazing.

What enabled David to respond this way? I believe several factors played into it:

  • His understanding of who God was. He knew that God was bigger than his circumstances. He recognized that He was in control of every detail of his life even when Saul behaved like an idiot.
  • He feared God more than he feared the king. He held God in high esteem, and knew the value of standing in good relationship with Him.
  • He respected Saul as a person even though his behavior didn’t deserve respect. Perhaps this ability also came from his understanding of God’s role in his life.

Frankly, I stand in awe of David. His attitude towards Saul encourages me to check and change mine where necessary. To be gracious in spirit when someone wrongs me. To treat the offender with respect and encourage others to do the same.

If we all made this our goal, the world would turn upside down!

Article RE: Dr. Jean Chamberlain

Thursday, May 28th, 2009

Saving the Mothers:

A Canadian doctor becomes an advocate for Uganda’s destitute

Grief sweeps over Dr. Jean Chamberlain Froese as she stands in the back hall of the university hospital in Kampala, Uganda. On a metal trolley before her lie five babies – three stillborn infants and two neonatal deaths. The wee bodies are wrapped in thin blankets. Name tags on each blanket identify the children’s mothers.

The doctor reads the names and then thinks of another mother – one who died of pregnancy-related complications in the same hospital a few hours ago. Six needless deaths in one day, she thinks. If this happened in North America, authorities would launch an investigation and heads would roll. But here? Nothing happens.

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Finding Strength in the Lord

Wednesday, May 27th, 2009

Wow – God’s Word teems with nuggets of truth and encouragement. I journal my thoughts as I read it, and my notes are growing more extensive as time passes. Besides writing general insights about how Scripture applies to me today, I’ve been collecting verses that fall into various categories.

One of those categories is leadership. What a fascinating study! Now I’m ready to develop a 3-session package designed for women in ministry leadership positions. Can’t wait! I’ll be presenting this seminar for the first time at Ness Lake Bible Camp in November.

Anyway… on to today’s thought. 

David’s life was not easy. Take a look at 1 Samuel 29-30 and step into his sandals for a moment:

  • His integrity is questioned when he partners with the Philistines for war against Israel, and he’s told to go home. “No battle for you, Buddy.” (29:9-11)
  • After walking for three days, he arrives at his city and finds it burned to the ground. He and his men discover that their wives and children have been taken captive by the enemy (30:1-3).
  • He and his men are probably physically exhausted from their journey. Now they’re emotionally drained, too. In light of losing their homes, their belongings, and their families, they sit down and weep “until they could weep no more” (30:4).
  • His men become bitter about losing their families, and they begin talking about stoning David (30:6).

David has lost everything – his reputation, his home, his family, and his army’s support. He has every reason to sink into the pit of discouragement. Who would blame him if he withdrew and became a hermit? But he refuses to give up. Scripture says he “found strength in the Lord his God” (30:7). He asks God for help, and then he goes to battle, trusting God for victory.  

We can learn much from David’s response to difficulties. When our circumstances seem too much to bear, we can follow his example and find our strength in the Lord. No matter what we face, God will give us what we need to push through.

“The Lord is my strength and my song; he has become my victory. Songs of joy and victory are sung in the camp of the godly. The strong right arm of the Lord has done glorious things!” (Psalm 118:14,15)

Here’s a question for discussion: When you’ve faced discouragement, how have you strengthened yourself in the Lord?

This I Know

Monday, May 25th, 2009

Two weeks ago, I somehow managed to lock my SI joint (sacro iliac) and wound up in excruciating pain in my lower back. My doctor ordered pain-killers and exercises, but neither helped. The pain from routine movements such as walking, getting in and out of my car, and standing from a sitting position nearly left me breathless. One morning, out of desperation, I looked in the Yellow Pages and found a chiropractor whose schedule allowed me to receive treatment within a couple of hours.

Since then, I’ve visited that chiropractor’s office seven times. Last Friday’s treatment was so intense that I nearly cried. “Now go home, put ice on your back, and walk, walk, walk,” said the doctor. His orders worked. This morning I was able to sit in my favorite recliner while I read my Bible and journaled, and then I stood up with only minimum pain. I even took a 25-minute walk – something that was impossible to do a few days ago.

Some people raise their eyebrows and look skeptical when the word chiropractor is mentioned. Perhaps they’ve never had an appointment with one, or they’ve heard scary stories of being folded like a pretzel and then having their bones snapped. Their response is, “Go to a chiropractor? I don’t think so!”

No matter what others think or say, I believe this doctor has played a role in my healing. Frankly, I don’t understand his methods, but this I know – pain had nearly immobilized me, but now I’m walking again. Next time I hear someone speak of back or neck pain, I’ll recommend his name.

The other day I read the story about the man born blind (John 9). Jesus had healed him completely – an act that raised the eyebrows of the man’s parents, neighbors, and local religious leaders. They questioned, they doubted, they scoffed. But the fact remained – the man born blind could now see.

I love the man’s simple response to the doubters: “I know this – I was blind, and now I see” (v. 25). It’s likely he didn’t understand Jesus’ methods for restoring his sight, but he did know that, for the first time in his life, he could see puffy white clouds set against a brilliant blue sky. I’ll bet he recommended Jesus’ name to every blind beggar he saw from that day forward.

Has Christ changed your life? Has He impacted you in a personal and powerful way? It’s possible that others, including those closest to you, have expressed doubt and skepticism. If so, don’t get caught up in arguments, and don’t be discouraged by their attitudes or comments. You know the reality of Christ’s life-changing power because of what He’s done for you. Stand firm in that knowledge, and be prepared to recommend His name to others in need.

The Humble Prince

Friday, May 22nd, 2009

The Scriptures tell us a lot about King Saul and his reign. They tell us even more about David and his journey from the pasture to the palace. Squeezed between the two we find another character – Jonathan. Prince Jonathan, to be exact.

He was Saul’s son, the rightful heir to the throne. But because Saul was such a doofus, God transferred  the royal lineage to David. That meant one thing – Prince Jonathan would never assume the throne. If you were in his royal boots, how might you have felt? Betrayed? Bitter, perhaps?

Jonathan could have said something like, “David – you’re supposed to be my friend. How could you do this to me? You know I’m the heir to the throne, so get outta the way and let me take over. I know my dad’s been a jerk, but that doesn’t give you the right to take my place as the next king.”

But no. Jonathan fully supported David and committed himself to helping his friend achieve what God had ordained for him. “Don’t be afraid,” he told David. “My father will never find you! You are going to be the king of Israel, and I will be next to you, as my father is well aware.”

What a model of humility! In fact, Jonathan’s attitude reminds me of Philippians 2, the chapter that speaks of Christ’s humility. He existed in the form of God but didn’t demand and cling to His rights as God (v. 6). Instead, He gave up those rights for our sake, so that we could become all that God has ordained for us.

Are we willing to give up our personal rights for the sake of others? Are we willing to give up our dreams or aspirations to enable someone else to succeed? Wow – that’s a challenge. It’s so contrary to mankind’s way of thinking in a society that encourages us to look out for ourselves and stand up for our rights.

“God, help us to model Jesus, the humble King, and Jonathan, the humble prince. Grant us the desire and ability to set aside our personal rights for the sake of others. Help us see life through Your eyes – to see the bigger picture of what You want to accomplish and to joyfully jump in to do whatever’s necessary to help it happen. Amen.”

 

Have a great weekend!

Motorbikes and Leather

Wednesday, May 20th, 2009
Gene and Grace - leather-clad and ready to ride!

Gene and Grace - leather-clad and ready to ride!

My 22-year-old daughter, Kim, and I were strolling through a city park last summer when I noticed three leather-clad dudes sitting in the shade of a poplar tree. Their tattooed arms rippled with muscle. Two sported shaved heads, while the third wore a braid that ended in the middle of his back.

My first thought was of the Hell’s Angels and whether this trio belonged to the notorious bike gang. “I wouldn’t wanna meet them in a dark alley,” I whispered as we walked past. That’s when I noticed the emblem on the back of one rider’s leather vest.

Lo and behold! The emblem bore a cross with a man hanging on it. Yellow and orange sun rays extended outward from the figure. Below the cross were the words, “Christian Motorcycle Association.” I looked at Kim sheepishly. She looked back at me and raised her eyebrows. “Good job, Mom,” she said. “You pegged them right, didn’t ya?”

The experience was particularly humbling because I’m a biker, too. I wonder – how many times have others regarded me and my husband with suspicion as we’ve driven down the highway on our two-wheeler? You’d think I would have known better.

That was a humbling experience. It’s been a constant reminder of how quickly we judge others by their outward appearance. Piercings, tattoos, color-streaked hair, out-of-the-norm clothing, make-up, even body weight – all of these form perceptions in our mind about the person behind them. “People judge by outward appearance but the Lord looks at a person’s thoughts and intentions,” says 1 Samuel 16:7.

Ever since my blooper on that summer day, I’ve asked God to help me see people as He does. I might get stuck on the exterior, but He knows their hearts, their needs, joys, sorrows, dreams, and regrets. He knows their failures, victories, and potential. He sees beyond the leather, the tattoos, and the funky hair-dos, and He views them as precious.

How about you? Have you ever misjudged someone’s character by their outward appearance? Let’s hear your story!

More Thoughts about Obedience

Monday, May 18th, 2009

Saul’s life offers some priceless insights about obedience or lack thereof. God’s command to him was clear: “Go and completely destroy the entire Amalekite nation – men, women, children, babies, cattle, sheep, camels, and donkeys” (1 Samuel 15:3).

Did Saul do as he was told? Nope. He captured the Amalekite king and allowed his army to keep the best of the sheep and cattle – everything, in fact, that appealed to them (v. 9). He must have skipped class on the day his teachers explained the definition of obedience, because his understanding obviously lacked. When Samuel asked him why he didn’t obey the Lord’s command, Saul answered, “But I did obey the Lord. I carried out the mission he gave me. I brought back King Agag, but I destroyed everyone else. Then my troops brought in the best of the sheep and cattle and plunder to sacrifice to the Lord your God in Gilgal” (v. 20-21).

Saul failed to connect the dots between God’s Word and his behavior, and God held him accountable. Samuel pronounced the verdict: “Since you have rejected the Lord’s command, he has rejected you from being the king of Israel” (v. 26). Ouch!

A couple of thoughts from these verses:

  • It’s possible to convince ourselves that we’re walking in obedience when in reality, we’re far from it. Others might recognize our shortcoming but we’re blinded. If a godly person tries to warn us, we’d best listen.
  • God desires complete obedience. (v. 22 – “What is more pleasing to the Lord: your burnt offerings and sacrifices or your obedience to his voice? Obedience is far better than sacrifice.”) Halfway obedience simply doesn’t cut it.
  • God holds us accountable for lack of obedience. There are consequences when we refuse to listen to His voice.

Why is obeying God’s Word so important? Because of who He is. Psalm 11:7,8 say: “All he does is just and good, and all his commandments are trustworthy. They are forever true, to be obeyed faithfully and with integrity.”

God’s commands are good and fully reliable because He is good and faithful. They’re given for our protection, to enable us to live life as He intended. Failure to obey hurts us and affects those around us.

Whether or not we obey what He tells us to do is our choice, but we need to choose well. When we do, we will receive a reward: “The rewards of wisdom come to all who obey him” (v. 10). How different from paying negative consequences as Saul did when he disobeyed!

Here are a couple of questions for you: What do you think is the biggest hindrance to our obeying God’s Word? In what area of life do you struggle with giving God complete obedience?

Obedience and Other Stuff

Friday, May 15th, 2009

We humans are a perplexing bunch, don’t you think? We can justify nearly anything we do. Sometimes it starts with the small stuff. Here’s an example:

I’m working at my computer in the middle of the afternoon when hunger pangs strike. I satisfy them with a brownie despite knowing that an apple would be a smarter food choice. “It’s okay,” I reassure myself, “I needed something sweet.” (Like, duh…a few too many brownies later, I’m frustrated at the bathroom scale for its ever-increasing numbers).

Sometimes the issues are much bigger…

A man sits in our dining room, explaining why he’s leaving his wife of 28 years. “I just need some time to myself,” he says. “I need to think, to sort things out.” (He was having an affair but didn’t realize that we knew about it. He was actually making the break with his wife so he could move in with his girlfriend).

Who are we kidding, anyway? And who was Saul kidding when he blatantly disobeyed God’s commands and then justified his behavior?

1 Samuel 15:1-15 tells the story of Saul fighting the Amalekites. God had issued his command: “Go and completely destroy the entire Amalekite nation – men, women, children, babies, cattle, sheep, camels, and donkeys.” Saul went into battle, but rather than obeying implicitly, he captured the Amalekite king and spared the best of the sheep and the cattle. Then Samuel showed up and demanded an explanation.

“I have carried out the Lord’s command,” said Saul wearing a grin a mile wide (v. 13).

“Then what’s all the bleating of sheep and lowing of cattle I hear?” Samuel asked.

“It’s true that the army spared the best of the sheep and cattle,” Saul admitted. “But they are going to sacrifice them to the Lord your God. We have destroyed everything else.”

Did Saul actually think he could justify his disobedience and get away with it? I guess so. Sadly, it didn’t work. It doesn’t work for us either.

When God tells us to give to the needy, He’s not impressed with excuses such as, “Well, my kids’ sports activities cost so much that I didn’t have anything left to give.” When He tells us to get rid of questionable books or magazines, He’s not impressed with answers like, “But the fizzle left my marriage years ago. These stories replace the romance I don’t have in real life.” When He tells us to get involved with missions in North America or overseas, He’s less than excited when we respond, “Who, me? Uh, I don’t have the time right now.”

God wants our obedience, not our reasons for why we do life our own way. More on Monday.

A Two-Word Prayer

Wednesday, May 13th, 2009

I’m glad God doesn’t care if our prayers are eloquent. Frankly, sometimes I’m too tired to utter beautifully composed words. Sometimes I’m too perplexed to know even what words to use. The best I can muster is “Lord, help!”

The Israelites often felt the same way. Check it out:

  • Psalm 107:4-7 – “Some wandered in the desert, lost and homeless. Hungry and thirsty, they nearly died. ‘Lord, help!’ they cried in their trouble, and he rescued them from their distress. He led them straight to safety, to a city where they could live.”
  • Psalm 107:10-14 – “Some sat in darkness and deepest gloom, miserable prisoners in chains. They rebelled against the words of God, scorning the counsel of the Most High. That is why he broke them with hard labor; they fell, and no one helped them rise again. ‘Lord, help!’ they cried in their trouble, and he saved them from their distress. He led them from the darkness and deepest gloom; he snapped their chains.”
  • Psalm 107:17-20 – “Some were fools in their rebellion; they suffered for their sins. Their appetites were gone, and death was near. ‘Lord, help!’ they cried in their trouble, and he saved them from their distress. He spoke, and they were healed – snatched from the door of death.”
  • Psalm 107:23-30 – “Some went off in ships, plying the trade routes of the world. They, too, observed the Lord’s power in action, his impressive works on the deepest seas. He spoke, and the winds rose, stirring up the waves. Their ships were tossed to the heavens and sank again to the depths; the sailors cringed in terror. They reeled and staggered like drunkards and were at their wits’ end. ‘Lord, help!’ they cried in their trouble, and he saved them from their distress. He calmed the storm to a whisper and stilled the waves. What a blessing was that stillness as he brought them safely into harbor!”

The people cried, “Lord, help!” Their words were neither poetic nor well planned. They were a simple plea, an acknowledgement of their need for God. How did He respond? He rushed to their rescue and met them at their deepest point of need. He led the lost and homeless to a city where they could live. He set the prisoners free. He saved those who were suffering consequences for their sins. And for those struggling to survive a storm, He stilled the waves and brought them safely to the harbor.

“Lord, help!” – two words that set almighty God to action on behalf of those who acknowledge their need for Him. Amazing, isn’t it?

Peer Pressure

Monday, May 11th, 2009

As a kid, did you ever succumb to peer pressure? I did. I remember hiding in the bushes, stealing puffs on cigarettes in eighth grade – trying hard to impress the most popular girl in my grade. I wanted to be like her, so I was willing to play the game of life by her rules, at least until doing so landed me in trouble at home.

This morning I discovered a verse that says the Israelites succumbed to peer pressure, too. “We want to be like the nations around us,” they said, referring to their desire for a king to rule over them (1 Samuel 8:20). Psalm 106:35 adds, “They mingled among the pagans and adopted their evil customs.”

Guess what happened? They landed in big trouble. “They worshiped their idols, and this led to their downfall” (v. 36). The following verses describe the specifics. Take a moment to read…I dare you.

In all honesty, I read these verses and the passages around them and think, Wow – sounds like North American Christianity. We, too, have succumbed to peer pressure, even within the last generation. Marriages of Christians are falling apart at the same rate as those who do not profess to be believers. More than ¼ million Christian women abort their babies annually. Same-sex marriages are being sanctioned by church leaders. Pornography has infiltrated the pulpit, and abuse is no stranger to Christian homes. In many ways, the Church has adopted the evil customs of those around it.

It’s time to take a stand and say, “No more compromise. We want to be salt. We want to be light. We want to walk in the ways of the Lord, following His truth rather than our emotions or whatever society says is okay.” It’s time to pray for an all-out revival, for the Holy Spirit to visit the Church as never before in history. It’s time for us to pray with the Psalmist, “Oh Lord our God, save us! Gather us back from among the nations, so we can thank your holy name and rejoice and praise you. Blessed be the Lord, the God of Israel, from everlasting to everlasting! Let all the people say, ‘Amen!’” (Psalm 106:47,48)

Let’s say goodbye to peer pressure. Let’s choose now to shrug off the desire to be like those around us, especially if those folks are living lives that dishonor God. Instead, let’s choose to worship the true God and please Him alone.