Archive for November, 2009

Sure-Fire Remedy for Feeling Stressed

Monday, November 30th, 2009

Sometimes, especially in winter, the skin on hands dries out. I can almost hear it sigh with relief when I apply lotion. Aaaahhh, it seems to say. That feels gooood. My body responds in the same way when I soak in a hot tub after a long trip. And my eyes, strained and bloodshot after an all-night flight or too much time staring at a computer screen, feel refreshed when I treat them with cool drops of Visine.

My heart and my mind are no different. Sometimes I feel wearied by stuff like writing deadlines and the constant demand to keep up with ever-changing technology in the publishing industry. Then there are real life issues, too – we’ve lost three parents in the past two years, moved to a new city and established a national ministry, traveled overseas for ministry seven times, and the list goes on. When responsibilities snowball and stress builds up, my heart and mind simply get tired. But over the years, I’ve discovered a sure-fire remedy to ease that stress and bring relief and refreshment.

Psalm 119:162 says, “Those who love your law have great peace and do not stumble.” What a gem this verse is, and how true!

My remedy to stress and feeling overwhelmed is to delve into God’s Word. When I’m tired, His promises reassure me of His strength working in and through me. When I’m baffled about a specific situation, His Word tells me that He’s my resource for infinite wisdom. When I’m feeling kicked around, His Word says He’ll be my defense. When I’m scared about what the future holds, His Word reminds me that He’s sovereign and holds my future in His hands.

I read God’s Word and a great sense of peace washes over me. It calms my anxious heart and stills my fearful mind. It’s  physical and mental effect is undeniable. It’s so real, so viable that I can almost hear my heart and mind say, “Aaaahhh, that feels gooood.”

Maybe you can relate. Do you have a favorite Scripture that gives you peace? If so, please share it with us.

The Poor

Friday, November 27th, 2009

I’m in Ontario this week, doing a Girls Night Out speaking tour sponsored by Faith Life Financial and World Vision. I’ve done several dozen such events in the past three years, and I find it fascinating to see how different communities respond to an invitation/challenge for child sponsorship.

My family has sponsored children through World Vision for nearly 15 years. Presently we have an 8-year-old boy, Ankit, in India and a 12-year-old girl in Nepal. Two years ago, we had the privilege of meeting Ankit and his family. I tell ya, the joy level in my heart that day nearly went through the roof. 

I will always cherish the memory of holding Ankit on my lap and seeing the delight on his face when we shared balloons and candy with him and his friends. I’ll always remember the moment he ducked into his mud-and-rock house and returned with the Christmas card I’d sent him three months prior. And I will also cherish the memory of speaking with his mother. Our hearts truly connected that day. After all, we share the same goal of trying to make life better for her little boy.

When I speak on behalf of millions of impoverished children around the world, I challenge Canadians to value what God values. Scripture contains more than 2,000 references to helping the poor, the orphans, and the widows. His heart breaks for them; ours ought to break, too, and we ought to do what we can to help in practical ways. Isn’t that what pure and undefiled religion is all about?

In some communities, I see women respond with open hands. They “get” it. They understand the need and they do something about it, even if it means giving sacrificially. In other places, I see them respond with skepticism. On this tour, one little girl – maybe 10 years old – said to her mom, “We should sponsor a child. Let’s do this, okay?” The mother replied, “No, it’s just a scam.” Ouch.

When I heard that, something inside me rose up and wanted to say, “Tell that to a child who goes to bed hungry every night, or to his mother who watches helplessly as her child dies of malnutrition or water-related disease. Or tell that to the national World Vision staff dedicated to working in these needy areas despite the sacrifices required of them to do so.”

This morning I read Daniel 4:27 – “Break from your wicked past by being merciful to the poor. Perhaps then you will continue to prosper.” This verse suddenly takes on a whole new meaning for me. It makes me wonder how much of our sinful behavior is dictated by selfishness – a desire for convenience, comfort, instant gratification, and so forth. However…

Being merciful to the poor means we take our eyes off ourselves and our wants. We focus on the needs of others and do what we can to meet those needs. We start thinking about what really matters to God and to eternity.  We break from our sinful behavior and start living in a manner that pleases the Lord. And when we do that, perhaps we prosper in unexpected ways. After all, God says we reap what we sow.

As for me, I’m going to sow into eternity. I’m going to continue being a voice for those who cannot speak for themselves…those millions of kids living in poverty, affected by HIV/AIDS, struggling with diseases for which there are no easy answers in their situations. I’m going to continue asking God to break my heart over what breaks His. And I’m going to keep praying for God to move the hearts of Canadian women to value what He values.

How about you? In whatever circumstances are yours, how can you show mercy to the poor?

Happiness — Another Thought

Wednesday, November 25th, 2009

This will be short and sweet, I hope, because I need to take a nap! I just pulled a red-eye flight from Abbotsford to Toronto for a Girls Night Out event in Oshawa tonight, and I feel like I’ve been hit by a semi-trailer. My scheduled flight was canceled due to maintenance problems, and an all-nighter was my only option to get here in time for tonight’s event. Dem’s da breaks! If you read this before 7:00 p.m. EST, please whisper a prayer for energy and clear thinking for tonight’s show. www.gnolive.ca

Psalm 119:54-55 present an insightful follow-up to my blog about happiness. “Your principles have been the music of my life throughout the years of my pilgrimage. I reflect at night on who you are, O Lord, and I obey your law because of this. This is my happy way of life: obeying your commandments.”

Again, happiness is not found in stuff or in easy circumstances. It’s found in obeying God’s words, written from His heart of love for our well-being. It’s found in regarding His commands not as restrictive or a kill-joy but as the music of our lives. And it’s found in the benefits we enjoy – freedom from guilt, freedom from shame, and freedom from the fear of His judgment and wrath.

There’s my quick short, sweet thought for the day. And now…I’m headin’ for bed. Blessings on you!

Happiness

Monday, November 23rd, 2009

Ask a dozen people what brings true happiness and you’ll probably get a dozen different answers. Here are a few common replies:

  • Financial security
  • Physical health
  • Family harmony
  • Grandkids
  • Having a job that you really enjoy
  • World peace
  • Add your answer!

There’s no problem with experiencing happiness with any or all of the above, but trouble comes if we depend on them for happiness. Circumstances change, people change, the weather changes, the world changes. If these things on which we base our happiness change, then our emotional state will go through an upheaval, too.

So where can true happiness be found? In obeying God’s Word. I know, I know, not everyone will agree. Some folks feel God is determined to take away our fun and following His rules is restrictive. I felt that way in my teen years, but I was wrong!  

Psalm 119: 35 says, “Make me walk along the path of your commands, for that is where my happiness is found.” It doesn’t say, “Give me a nice house in a nice neighborhood, for that is where my happiness is found.” Neither does it say, “Give me good health until the day I die, for that is where my happiness is found,” nor “Give me a family that knows how to function properly, for that is where my happiness is found.”

Nope. Happiness is found when we do life God’s way. That doesn’t mean we’ll never have problems. It doesn’t mean we won’t take the fallout from someone else’s issues. It doesn’t mean we’ll never suffer sorrow or pain or loss. But doing life God’s way guarantees freedom from guilt. It gives us the strength to face and move beyond our fears. It gives us peace in the midst of hard times. And it guarantees joy that comes from unbroken fellowship with Jesus.  

Where is happiness found? Not in anything we can see or touch. It comes from doing life God’s way. Let’s make v. 34 our prayer: “God, give me understanding and I will obey your law; I will put it into practice with all my heart.”

Have you ever based your happiness on anything other than walking according to God’s commands? If so, what was it, and what happened?

Friend of God

Friday, November 20th, 2009

One of my favorite worship choruses goes like this: “I am a friend of God, I am a friend of God, I am a friend of God, He calls me ‘friend.’” The lyrics are simple but the truth they teach is profound.

Think about it. Imagine being a friend of God…the Creator of all that exists…the One who calls the stars by name…the One who knows how many hairs are on our heads…the One for whom nothing is impossible. Imagine being His friend…not just a mere acquaintance, but one who has a close and intimate relationship with Him…and that at His invitation! Doesn’t that just boggle your mind?

How is this friendship possible? James 2:22-24 tells us the secret. “He (Abraham) was trusting God so much that he was willing to do whatever God told him to do. His faith was made complete by what he did – his actions. And so it happened just as the Scriptures say: ‘Abraham believed God and so God declared him to be righteous. He was even called ‘the friend’ of God. So you see, we are made right with God by what we do, not by faith alone.”

One of the most important aspects of true friendship is trust. If I say my husband is my best friend but I don’t trust him around other women or with our finances, then our friendship leaves a lot to be desired. In the spiritual realm, we can say God is our friend but if we can’t trust Him enough to do what He says, then I don’t really know Him and our friendship is almighty shallow.  

Abraham was a friend of God because he trusted Him implicitly, as revealed by his obedience. When I read these words, something welled up inside me that cried, “I want to be Your friend, too! I want to know Your heart, understand Your ways, know Your secrets. I want intimacy with You!”

The thrill for me lies in knowing that God wants the same thing. He wants it so much that He’s told me what it takes – obedience. Now it’s up to me. How badly do I want to be called His friend? Am I willing to do what it takes?

How does this thought of being called a friend of God impact you?

Rise Again!

Wednesday, November 18th, 2009

To say these folks felt bone weary is an understatement. The Israelites were more than just overtired and exhausted. They were dead…’way dead, and the valley filled with old, dry bones proved it. Life was gone and with it, all hope. But everything changed when the Spirit of the Lord showed up. Ezekiel 37:10 says, “They all came to life and stood up on their feet – a great army of them.”

What an amazing scene that must have been. And what an amazing message it carries! If you’re struggling in a difficult situation today and you feel as though all hope is gone…this message is for you, my friend. Read God’s words to you:

“O my people, I will open your graves of exile and cause you to rise again. Then I will bring you back to the land of Israel. When this happens O my people, you will know that I am the LORD. I will put my Spirit in you, and you will live and return home to your own land. Then you will know that I am the LORD” (Ezekiel 37:12-14).

These three verses are packed with promises:

  • God will open our graves and cause us to rise again! Even when all hope is gone, He wants to breathe life into our battle-weary souls and set us on our feet. Nothing, not even death, can defeat Him or His purposes.
  • God will bring us back to the land of Israel. In this context, it means He’ll fulfill His grand purpose for our lives.
  • God will put His Spirit in us. That happens when we enter a relationship with Jesus Christ and trust Him for our salvation. His Spirit living in us means His presence is with us 24/7. We’re never alone – how reassuring is that?
  • God will reveal Himself to us. Seemingly impossible situations are opportunities for Him to work mightily on our behalf, and when He does, we get to know Him more intimately. We understand that He truly is God.

Do you feel like you’re living in the Valley of Dry Bones? Hang in there, my friend! God has no intention of leaving you there. He will cause you to rise again and will fulfill His purposes for your life. He will put His Spirit within you, and you’ll get to know Him more intimately. He said it…and I believe it’s true. Do you?

Have you ever felt as though you were in the Valley of Dry Bones? If so, did you see the above promises fulfilled in your life? How?

Takin’ a Break Today

Monday, November 16th, 2009

It’s 6 p.m. on Monday evening and I’ve yet to write my devotional blog. Forgive me, ladies – I’m taking a break today.

Gene and I spent 7 hours on the road on Friday, driving to our daughter’s home in Washington state where we helped her and her hubby move to a different apartment. That meant cleaning the old and new apartments, running around town to pick up items they needed for the new place, and unpacking. We’ve just returned home after another day on the road…and I’m a bit weary.

I’ll be back on Wednesday! Stay tuned, friends.

Know you are loved!

I Assume That…

Friday, November 13th, 2009

The assumptions we make are critical. For instance, they have the potential of landing us in trouble if we assume incorrectly. Here’s an example. I fly to a lot of different destinations using various airlines. Each airline has rules to follow. British Airways allows missionary fares to check three 50-pound bags. If I buy tickets to fly on a different airline and pack my suitcases assuming they offer the same deal as BA, I’ll either have to pay an extra fee at the airport or leave my third suitcase behind.

If I speak with a woman whose first language is not English and see her nod her head, I assume she understands what I said. That could be a wrong assumption on my part. (I know this from experience – I nodded my head a lot when we first moved to Nepal!)

If I leave a voice mail for someone, I assume she received it. When she doesn’t acknowledge my call, I might assume she doesn’t want to respond to my offer or she doesn’t care. That might be a wrong assumption….after all, maybe someone in her family accidentally deleted the message and forgot to tell her about it, or perhaps she was away from home for a few days.

Assuming the worst about a possible scenario often means we waste a lot of time and energy entertaining negative thoughts and what-ifs. But assuming correctly is a whole ‘nother story. Take a look at Abraham’s example.

Hebrews 11:17-19 says, “It was by faith that Abraham offered Isaac as a sacrifice when God was testing him. Abraham, who had received God’s promises, was ready to sacrifice his only son, Isaac, though God had promised him ‘Isaac is the son through whom your descendants will be counted.’ Abraham assumed that if Isaac died, God was able to bring him back to life again…”

Abraham was being asked to do something that defied human comprehension. Sacrificing his son made no sense whatsoever. He could have assumed that God had flipped out and refused to obey. Instead, he assumed that God was in control and would take responsibility for the outcome. That assumption gave him the courage to trust and obey God. Sure enough, God came through.

When we’re walking in fellowship with God, we can assume He’s in control of every detail of our lives. We need not fear because He is sovereign. We need not be anxious because He is all-powerful and all-wise. We need only to remember His promises and assume that He’ll be faithful to keep them because He cannot lie.

Assuming that God is able to do the impossible is life-changing. Imagine the impact around the world if every believer correctly assumed this truth and acted upon it!

 

How would your life change if you maintained the same attitude as Abraham?

God’s Reputation

Wednesday, November 11th, 2009

Our reputation is a priceless treasure…when it’s a good one, of course. Most of us want to be known for our integrity – that we’re reliable and honest in all our dealings. Depending on one’s role in society, we might also like to be known for our technological savvy, our money smarts, our intellectual abilities, or our creative giftedness. We try hard to live up to our reputation, and we probably feel hurt if others don’t trust it.

God has a reputation, too, and it’s a goodie. Through the ages, He’s proven Himself to be faithful and compassionate to those who love Him. Time and experience show that He’s able to do the impossible. He’s eternal, never-changing, and all-wise. He’s capable of turning tragedy to triumph and turn sorrow into joy. And that’s just the beginning! Based on His rock-solid reputation, we have every reason to trust Him and His commands.

God’s reputation gives us assurance that He hears us and will answer when we call to Him for help. Psalm 109:21,26 say, “But deal well with me, O Sovereign Lord, for the sake of your own reputation! Rescue me because you are so faithful and good…Help me, O lord my God! Save me because of your unfailing love. Let them see that you yourself have done it, Lord.”

You know what strikes me in these verses? The pray-er’s faith that God will answer based solely on His reputation as being faithful, good, and loving. There’s no hint of trying to convince God that he’s a good person who deserves help. He simply lays out his concerns and then asks God to answer because of who He is.

This is a good prayer model for us. Here are a few examples:

  • When we’re anxious about wayward kids, we can ask God to draw them back to Himself because of His unfailing love for them.
  • When circumstances threaten to overwhelm us, we can ask Him for strength and wisdom because He is faithful and good.
  • When we’re afraid of financial setbacks, we can ask God to meet our physical needs for the sake of His reputation as Jehovah Jireh, the provider.

I find encouragement in knowing that whether or not God answers my prayers isn’t based on how eloquent my words are, or how good I am. It’s based on who He is, and that never changes.

Can you think of other examples to add to the list above?

A Good Forgetter

Monday, November 9th, 2009

It happened again this morning. While sorting and filing papers, I suddenly thought of an item to be added to my shopping list. Write it down as soon as you finish your task, I told myself. Two minutes later, task complete, I walked downstairs to the kitchen where my shopping list is posted on the fridge door. By the time I arrived, I’d completely forgotten what I’d intended to write.

The older I get, the more efficient my forgetter works (too bad the same isn’t true for my eyes and ears!). The problem goes beyond my shopping list. To be honest, remembering names is a major challenge for me, especially because I meet so many people in my travels (at least I’m pretty good at recognizing faces, even from years back). Recalling Scripture verses from memory is also difficult. And how about phone numbers and birthdays? And what about passwords to the bank machine, my Facebook account, my blog, and the various loops of which I’m a part? It’s downright embarrassing when the ol’ brain slips a cog in the middle of a conversation and I can’t remember where I was headed or the point I was trying to make.

You know what I find encouraging? Even God has a good forgetter. Hebrews 10:17 says, “I (God) will never again remember their sins and lawless deeds.” When I confess my sin to Him, He forgives me and then promptly forgets what I told Him. How amazing is that? I find comfort in knowing that once He’s forgiven me, He doesn’t recall the things I’ve done from stupidity. He doesn’t remember unkind words I’ve spoken. He forgets the critical thoughts I’ve entertained and the bad decisions I’ve made. His memory is wiped clean, and so is my heart.

Now…if only my forgetter would work as efficiently as His when it comes to forgetting the unkind words or deeds directed my way by others. Hmmm…looks like I have a way to go in that department.

How about you? How well does your forgetter work? What things do you wish it would forget more easily?