Archive for January, 2010

Hagar’s Plight

Friday, January 8th, 2010

At Missions Fest Edmonton in February, I’ll be teaching a workshop called “The Plight of Women in the World.” While preparing my material, I’ve read some stories that are enough to make one’s hair turn grey. It’s difficult to fathom the evil of mankind’s heart. My life is shamefully easy compared to millions of other women.

Hagar was one of these women. Remember her? She was Sarai’s Egyptian servant, considered more a possession than a person of worth. Sarai, fed up with the shame of being barren, forced Hagar to sleep with Abram for the purpose of impregnating her. The culture said the child would belong to Sarai. Talk about the plight of a poor slave girl!

The story goes on to say that, once pregnant, Hagar treated Sarai with contempt. Sarai, in turn, treated Hagar so harshly that she ran away into the wilderness. Pregnant, abused, homeless, and now hopeless – what a mess. At the same time, her story is a beautiful picture of God’s mercy for women in need.

Genesis 16:7 (ff) says the angel of the Lord found Hagar in the wilderness, sitting along a road by a spring of water. He asked her two key questions: “Where did you come from?” and “Where are you going?” Today, these two questions aptly address the needs of broken, hurting women around the world whose lives feel as forsaken as the wilderness to which Hagar fled.

How might they answer the question, “Where have you come from?” Their answers might say, “I came from an abusive marriage,” or “I came from a country where army soldiers killed my family and kidnapped and raped me,” or “I came from a village where all the adults my parents’ ages died of AIDS and only children were left to care for younger children.”

How might they answer the question, “Where are you going?” Well, that’s probably more difficult. Hagar needed help with that one, and many women in hopeless situations today feel the same. They don’t know where they’re going because they feel trapped, imprisoned in their own homes or villages. Without an education and no means to pursue it, their future looks grim. Considered more a possession than a person of worth, they feel they have no value other than providing sexual gratification, bearing children – many of whom die before their fifth birthday – and hauling water or feeding livestock.

The plight of women around the world defies the imagination…especially in cultures that defy the living God, the One who created them and called them “good,” the One who knows the number of hair on their heads, and who writes their names on His hands. But we can make a difference. We’re called to be Christ’s hands and feet, to be a voice for those who cannot speak for themselves, and to love the poor as He did.

Researching for the workshop has resulted in my being challenged to raise awareness of what women around the world are dealing with on a daily basis. As I compile more material, I’m planning to create a space on my website to post links to articles and organizations that will educate and offer creative ways to get involved. That’s one way I can be a voice on behalf of my sisters. I’ll let you know when that section is posted.

How about you? What insights can you share regarding the plight of women around the world? And what practical suggestions can you share to help a modern-day Hagar?

Goin’ Fishing

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

IM coworkers -- my friend Karla is in the back middle

Today’s been a busy day. It began with an early morning prayer meeting at our church – our overnight guests (IM missionaries from Slovakia) were the featured speakers there. Afterwards we went out for breakfast with the prayer meeting attendees (as is the tradition for this particular group of mostly retired missionaries). It was a great time for my friend, Karla Thiessen, to tell more about life in Slovakia and ministry among the gypsies there.

The rest of the day was filled with random stuff – fix lunch for our guests, help Karla prepare her workshop handouts for Missions Fest, get my eyes checked (I’m trying contact lenses without much luck), and then driving our guests to a family member’s home 40 miles away. It’s nearly suppertime, and I’m finally sitting down to write my blog.

For those of you who do your quiet time in the morning as I do, I’m going to do my best to post early in the day from now on. I want to keep this as a priority and to make it as convenient as possible for my readers. By the way, thank you for your comments – I really enjoy hearing about what you’re learning. We can all benefit from each other’s life lessons. Keep ‘em coming!

And now, for today’s thoughts…

When Jesus called Simon and Andrew to join His team, how did He phrase the invitation? He said, “Follow Me, and I’ll show you how to fish for people” (Matthew 4:19). He could have said, “Follow Me and I’ll show you how to fish for wealth,” or “Follow Me and I’ll show you how to fish for popularity.” Yes, He could have made these promises, but He didn’t. Instead, He said, “I’ll show you how to fish for people.” No doubt about it – Jesus values people. In fact, His love for mankind motivated Him to leave His heavenly home, give up His rights as God, become a servant, and obey to the point of death on a cross.

Here are a couple of questions this verse brings to mind:

  • Do I share Christ’s passion? Or do I too easily get caught up in my own pursuits – as legitimate as they may seem – bypassing people in the process?
  • How can I ensure I maintain Christ’s focus on people?

Perhaps the secret of success for the latter question lies in Christ’s command: “Follow Me.” The closer my relationship is with Jesus, the more likely I am to value what He values. The more likely it is that I’ll share His heartbeat for what matters most. The more probable it is that I’ll be a conduit of His love for men and women within my sphere of influence.

It’s the John 1 “abiding in the vine” principle. As I abide in Christ, my life will produce much fruit. And that fruit is all about impacting people. It’s all about loving them, befriending them, showing kindness and sympathy and empathy, being respectful and non-discriminatory. It’s about taking time to listen and to show interest and to care. As I follow Jesus, He’ll make me more like Him. The automatic result is that people – not things, programs, or my own personal pursuits – will take a higher priority in my life.

What are your thoughts on this topic? What does “fishing for people” look like in real life for you?

Doing versus Being

Monday, January 4th, 2010

As a task-oriented person, I’m tempted to start the New Year by writing a long list of goals I’d like to accomplish in 2010. It would start with basic stuff like….

  • Lose another 10 pounds.
  • Keep my office tidier by filing papers immediately rather than letting them pile up.
  • Figure out how to connect Facebook with Twitter.
  • Learn to use my new iPod.
  • Read one book per week.
  • Spend less on groceries.

 It would graduate to tougher things such as…

  • Develop a half dozen new speaking topics.
  • Begin teaching “Weekend to Remember” marriage conferences with Gene.
  • Reevaluate my schedule to make time for researching and writing another book.
  • Be intentional about developing a friendship with one particular lady in my townhouse complex.

I find that writing goals is a good exercise for me. It forces me to think about what I hope to achieve, and helps me determine concrete steps necessary to get the job done. Yet, because I’m so task-driven, it’s easy for me to get hung up on doing, doing, doing. In my eagerness to accomplish much, I sometimes neglect to simply “be.” As a career missionary, I find it a constant struggle not to let my work consume me, but rather, to focus on my relationship with Jesus and let ministry flow from that.

I bought myself a new copy of The One Year Bible (after four years of being marked up and underlined, the old copy needed to be replaced) and have started reading from the beginning again. Wouldn’t you know it? Early in Genesis, I find a reminder to keep the right perspective on doing versus being.

Tucked into a long list of who begat who, we find these words: “Enoch lived in close fellowship with God for another 300 years, and he had other sons and daughters. Enoch lived 365 years, walking in close fellowship with God” (Genesis 5:22-24). Skip to Genesis 6:8-9 and read these words: “Noah found favor with the Lord…Noah was a righteous man, the only blameless person living on earth at the time, and he walked in close fellowship with God.”

These passages don’t elaborate about what Enoch and Noah did with their time, the goals they set, and the things they accomplished (Noah’s ark story comes later), but they do tell us what God deemed important.

These guys knew how to “be.” They knew how to be followers of God, how to be in right relationship with Him, how to be blameless before Him. That’s what I want to be, too.

How about you? Do you feel the same tension as I do between doing and being? What are your thoughts?

Happy New Year!

Friday, January 1st, 2010

Last night was beyond incredible when Urbana ’09 climaxed with approximately 17,000 men and women sharing communion. It was a taste of heaven – men and women representing nations from around the globe celebrating Jesus together. What a way to end 2009 and to ring in the New Year! How did you spend New Year’s eve?

What does God have in store for 2010? Only He knows the details of what the days ahead will bring for the world, for our nation, for our families, and for us as individuals. But this one thing we know for sure: He is with us.

Over and over during the Christmas season, I was reminded of the phrase “Immanuel, God is with us.” This morning, as I read from Matthew 1:23, it came to me again: “…He will be called Immanuel (meaning, God is with us).” No matter what the future holds, we are not alone. Our heavenly Father goes before and behind us. This knowledge brings peace in the face of uncertainty, and it brings confident anticipation for whatever lies ahead.

And so, as the New Year begins, let’s journey together sharing our hopes and dreams, our hurts and disappointments.  Let’s encourage each other along the path, laughing and crying and moving forward knowing we’re not walking that path alone. I look forward to sharing my life and lessons with you, and I look forward to hearing what’s happening in your life.

As for me, 2010 begins with a travel day. I’ll be flying from St. Louis to San Fransisco to Seattle…barring snow…and driving home from there. Ought to fall into bed around 1 a.m. tomorrow morning. I’m glad it’ll be Saturday – a sleep-in day.

Know you are loved,

Grace