Archive for November, 2011

The Key to Living Well

Monday, November 28th, 2011

Psalm 119 is one of my all-time favorites because it’s loaded with spiritual truths designed to help us lead abundant lives. Its impact on me started ‘way back in my elementary school days when I attended Pioneer Girls club every Wednesday evening. The club’s key verse was Psalm 119:105: “Your word is a lamp to guide my feet and a light for my path.”

God's Word -- the light that illumines my path.

I memorized the verse then, and it remains in my brain today. It’s a truth that never grows old. As long as I live, God’s Word will show me how to live well.

When I walk the path of parenting, the Scriptures give me principles to help me raise my kids. They give me practical strategies to keep my marriage strong. They teach me how to respond to people who treat me unkindly, how to manage my money, and how to regard authority. When I feel afraid, God’s promises shine light into the dark, scary places. When I face major decisions and don’t know which way to go, His Word directs me. There is nothing that God’s Word fails to address.

God’s Word holds the key to living well. It’s a lamp to guide our feet and a light for our path.  There’s no need to flounder in confusion. There’s no reason to languish in defeat. Knowing God’s Word – and doing what it says – is the key to living well. Do you believe this is true? I hope so!

Question: Do you have a favorite verse in Psalm 119? If so, what is it?

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What to Do When Life Gets Complicated

Friday, November 25th, 2011

“It’s complicated,” said a young man with whom I spoke recently. In the past year, he made some life-altering choices, and those choices carried negative consequences. Now he stands at a crossroads and wonders which way to go.

I admit—his situation is indeed complicated, but it’s not without hope. How can I be so sure? Because the Scriptures tell the story of another young man whose life became complicated and how he navigated the course successfully.

The young man’s name was Daniel. He and three buddies were captured by the Babylonians and chosen for an elite training program. During their training period, the ruling king of Babylon suffered from disturbing dreams. He demanded that his wise men tell him what his dreams were and then interpret their meaning. They argued with him, saying his request was unreasonable. This infuriated the king, and he ordered that all wise men in Babylon be executed. Unfortunately, Daniel and his buddies were on the hit list (Daniel 2:1-13).

When the executioner showed up at their doorstep, Daniel knew what to do:

  • He asked a question to clarify the situation: “Why has the king issued such a harsh decree?”
  • He listened to the answer: “So Arioch told him all that had happened…”
  • He took immediate action: “Daniel went at once to see the king and requested more time to tell the king what the dream meant.”
  • He shared his concern with godly friends: “Then Daniel went home and told his friends…”
  • He asked his friends to pray, and to do so specifically: “He urged them to ask the God of heaven to show them his mercy by telling them the secret so they would not be executed along with the other wise men of Babylon.”

Daniel’s life suddenly grew very complicated. He could have gone on a rant about the king’s foolish decree. He could have curled up in a fetal position, paralyzed by fear upon hearing the decree. He could have let the executioner do his job. Instead, he asked a question to gain a better understanding of the situation and then took deliberate action to prevent unnecessary deaths.

A vital element in this process was prayer. The men asked God to show them the secret, and God answered immediately: “That night the secret was revealed to Daniel in a vision.” What did Daniel do next? He praised God for being the source of all wisdom and power, and for sharing that wisdom and strength with him.

If the word complicated describes your life today, then follow Daniel’s example:

  • Ask questions to gain a better understanding of what brought you to this place and what your options are now.
  • Listen well.
  • Take appropriate action with the people involved.
  • Confide in trustworthy friends and urge them to pray specifically.
  • Expect God to answer.
  • Thank God for answered prayer.

No matter how grim your situation looks, rest assured it’s never beyond God’s wisdom or strength. He offers healing and hope, and He’ll bring you through as a stronger, wiser person.

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Got Joy?

Monday, November 21st, 2011

Someone once said, “How do you spell joy? Jesus. Others, You.”  Simple, and true. Life works well when we keep Jesus as our first love and then, in turn, lavish love on others rather than focusing on ourselves.

This morning I read some words that add a deeper dimension to the J in Joy.  They say, “Joyful are people of integrity, who follow the instructions of the LORD. Joyful are those who obey his laws, and search for him with all their hearts. They do not compromise with evil, and they walk only in his paths “ (Psalm 119:1-3).

Quite honestly, obeying God’s laws doesn’t always feel joyful especially if doing so collides with our wants or perceived rights. Take, for example, His command to love our enemies and pray for those who despitefully use us.

How about remaining faithful and respectful of one’s spouse when he/she shows no interest in keeping your marriage alive? What about tithing when finances are tight? What about taking a God-given risk when there’s no hint of the results it might bring? How about obeying the speed limit even though doing so means we’ll likely be late for a meeting? (Consider the possible options to that one and then ask yourself how joyful you’d feel paying a speeding ticket!)

Sometimes we consider God’s commands as old-fashioned or constricting. Perhaps it’s time for an attitude adjustment. We need to embrace them as safeguards placed by a loving, all-wise heavenly Father or as the strategies for successful living. Obeying them results in true joy even when it hurts or it’s inconvenient.

Answer this question: On a scale of 1 to 10, what’s my joy level today? What action must I take to move it at least one notch higher?

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Does God Care About You and Me?

Friday, November 18th, 2011

Stuff happens. A scan through newspaper headlines proves it:

Kids get sexually abused by their sports coaches. A wife and her three teenage daughters are drowned (in Canada, nonetheless) by a polygamist husband whose culture demands him to defend his family’s honor.  A teenage dies after a stray hockey puck hits him in the throat. The innocent get hit by stray bullets during gang battles on busy streets.

We read those headlines and feel a stab of pain for those involved. But many of us are too busy dealing with our own pain to linger on negative news stories. We’re trying to figure out how to support our families financially when we’ve just lost our job. Or we’re grieving the loss of an elderly parent, or walking a close friend through her battle with cancer. We’re struggling to know how to love a rebellious child, or how to glue a fractured marriage together.

We sometimes wonder if God’s really out there somewhere. If He is, then is He aware of what’s happening down here? If He’s aware, does He care?

The answer to all three questions is “Yes.”  I could write books to explore the theology behind them, but those struggling to survive one day at a time have neither time nor inclination to read them.  And so, I’ll simply share a verse that encourages me today and trust that it will encourage you, too. Here ‘tis:

“Because the Lord bends down to listen, I will pray as long as I have breath” (Psalm 116:2).

Read it again. Take a few moments to let your sanctified imagination wander. Now picture the God of heaven stooping down to listen to your cries for help. Imagine Him saying “Shush” to all the noise and clamor demanding His attention from every corner of the globe as He leans down, fully intent on hearing your words. Imagine Him focusing solely on you and the cares that weigh you down today. The Lord of heaven and earth bends down to listen to your prayers and mine. Amazing.

Be encouraged, my friend. God knows. He cares. He listens.

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What’s Your Source of Strength?

Monday, November 14th, 2011

Whewee! What a day’s been. An exciting day, to be sure, but one that’s made me mindful of my dependence on the Lord for strength.


The morning kicked off with a 30-minute drive to attend a meeting that started at 7:15. I make this trek every Monday to gather with a dozen or so men and women involved in local businesses. My horizons are stretching and I’m enjoying getting to know these folks, hearing what’s important to them, and why they do what they do for work.

While there, I met with a woman who designs journals. She has agreed to produce the customized journals for the women’s retreat I’m hosting in February. She showed me two samples, and I made my choice. Can’t wait to give one to each participant as a gift for attending!

A 30-minute drive home followed the meeting. From 10-11 AM, I did a live radio interview with a station in Norfolk, Virginia. I ran errands for the next hour, and then dashed to a meeting with a potential sponsor for the retreat (the meeting resulted in success, by the way!). That took two hours. Now it’s nearly 4:30 and almost time to cook supper. I know I’m going to have to spend at least two hours working this evening, answering emails and preparing what’s needed to attend a networking luncheon tomorrow.

I’m soooo thankful that God gives the strength necessary to do what He calls us to do. Without it, I’d be toast some days.

This morning I read several Scriptures about strength. The first referred to Pharaoh and his self-sufficient attitude soaked in pride.  A self-made man, he was. “The Nile River is mine; I made it for myself, “ he boasted (Ezekiel 29:3). What was God’s response? He said He would come to break the proud strength of Egypt (Ezekiel 30:18).

The second referred to the greats in biblical history: “How much more do I need to say? It would take too long to recount the stories of the faith of Gideon, Barak, Samson, Jephthah, David, Samuel, and all the prophets, By faith these people overthrew kingdoms, ruled with justice, and received what God had promised them. They shut the mouths of lions, quenched the flames of fire, and escaped death by the edge of the sword. Their weakness was turned to strength. They became strong in battle and put whole armies to flight” (Hebrews 11:32-34).

What a contrast, eh? Pharaoh revelled in his own strength and went down in defeat while the others acknowledged their weakness and grew in strength.

These Scriptures encourage me today. They tell me I don’t need to be strong, humanly speaking, to do what God has called me to do. In fact, the opposite is true. I head for trouble the moment I start thinking I can effectively minister from my own abilities and power.  I’m better off acknowledging my weakness, depending on God to fill me with His strength, and then giving Him the credit due for the results.

Here’s a great quote to end with. It refers to women, but the principle’s true for both men and women alike. “A strong woman works out every day to keep her body in shape, but a woman of strength kneels in prayer to keep her soul in shape” (Marta S. Hardy)

May our strength be found not in our own abilities, but in our walk with God!

Question: Do you have a favorite verse or quote about our source of strength? Please share it with us.

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Hang in There, Baby!

Friday, November 11th, 2011

Years ago, I saw a poster featuring a kitten suspended in air. Its paws clutched a knotted rope as the cat attempted to avoid falling. The words Hang in there, baby! were printed beneath the picture.

Sometimes we resemble that cat. Difficult circumstances challenge us and leave us feeling frustrated, angry, disappointed, anxious, or weary. Some days we wish the problems would go away and let our lives return to normal. Other days we wonder how long we’ll last before we crash and burn.

Perhaps you know exactly what I’m talking about. You resemble that cat, hanging at the end of its rope because you’re facing…

  • Strained family or marital relationships
  • Tensions due to church politics
  • Work overload
  • Financial insecurities
  • Health issues

Here are a couple of things to remember:

  • Respond in a godly manner. Others are watching your attitudes and behaviors. Let your example show what it means to live victoriously, thanks to the Holy Spirit’s power at work within you.
  • Know that God will reward you for hanging on. He’s fully aware of your situation (and the Holy Spirit is praying for you in the midst of it).

When you’re clutching the knot at the end of your rope, take heed to Hebrews 10:36—“Patient endurance is what you need now, so that you will continue to do God’s will. Then you will receive all that he has promised.” Continue loving those who hurt you, behaving in a God-honoring fashion, practicing patience, trusting Jehovah Jireh to provide your needs, and believing He’ll give you the strength you need one day at a time. He is faithful and will come through for you.

Hang in there, baby. Don’t let go.

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Jesus Prays for Me and You!

Monday, November 7th, 2011

Hebrews 7:25 encourages me, especially on days when I’m frustrated, discouraged, or doubt-filled. It says, “Therefore he (Jesus) is able once and forever, to save those who come to God through him. He lives forever to intercede with God on their behalf.”

Why does this verse encourage me? Because it assures me that Jesus is praying for moi! How sweet is that? How powerful is that?

My hunch is that Jesus prays a lot more than, “God, please bless Grace today.” If I could hear Him pray on my behalf, I might hear requests such as…

  • “Please grant her a hunger and thirst for righteousness.”
  • “Please cause her to seek for wisdom as for hidden treasures.”
  • “Please cause her to love You with all her heart, soul, mind and strength.”
  • “Please enable her to love mercy, do justly, and walk humbly with You, her God.”
  • “When she feels anxious, remind her that You are her Shepherd and will provide everything she needs.”

In all honesty, until now I’ve never really thought about what Jesus prays for me day in and day out. I’ve found this an enlightening exercise. Exciting, too. Think about it—with Jesus interceding on my behalf, I have no reason to fear or fail or flounder. He’s pullin’ for me. What more do I need to face life with hope?

If you’ve come to God through Jesus, then He’s praying for you, too. What do you think He’s asking on your behalf? Complete this sentence: I think Jesus is asking that I will ______________________.

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A Worship Song to Give You Strength in the Storms

Friday, November 4th, 2011

Someone sent me this song a few days ago. She’d just received bad news about one of her parents and said she found encouragement in the truth of these lyrics. I can see why!

I want to share this song with you with a prayer for God to meet you at your deepest point of need. Close your eyes and bask in its truth or watch the pictures. Either way, I guarantee your soul will be blessed.

Know you are loved,

Grace