Posts Tagged ‘courage’

A Practical Lesson in Trust

Friday, December 16th, 2011

The word trust has captured my attention in the past week. It first appeared in 1 John 4:4 – “We know how much God loves us, and we have put our trust in his love.” Then it showed up in Proverbs 29:25 – “Fearing people is a dangerous trap, but trusting the Lord means safety.” It stepped into my path like a flagger on a road construction site, causing me to slow down and pay attention to its message.

Stop! Pay attention!

I’m in a situation that’s calling me to trust God big-time—I’m planning and hosting a winter weekend getaway for business women in early February. Registrations are coming in, but so are the unending what-ifs.  Figures. I truly believe this event is God-breathed, but the ol’ guy with a pitchfork is going to do everything possible to stop it from happening. And so, these are some of the thoughts that dawdle in my head:

What if the weather conditions are lousy that weekend? What if road conditions are poor? What if we don’t meet our budget? What if I inadvertently overlook a critical element of the weekend? What if my workshops don’t hit the mark?

This experience is proving to be a great opportunity to implement what I teach about moving beyond fear. One of the things I stress when I speak to groups is that of knowing and focusing on the truth of God’s Word rather than on the what-ifs. The what-ifs spiral us into negative thinking and fear, but the truth bolsters our courage and enables us to move forward even when we can’t see where the next step will land.

What does the truth tell me as the women’s retreat draws closer day by day? It says God loves me. I’m His child. I’m safe in His care. He has everything under His loving control.

The truth also says that fearing people is a trap. In my case, I needn’t allow my desire to make a good impression on my retreat attendees drive my plans and preparations. Rather, I need to do what God says and I will find my security and safety in Him.

Yep, I’ve appreciated seeing the word trust in my face. It’s caused me to take a deep, refreshing breath and given me the courage and confidence to keep moving forward. Can I trust God with the details of the upcoming weekend? Absolutely. Can you trust Him with the details of your life? Yes. We can trust and not be afraid because He is who He says He is.

Question: Can you think of another Scripture that contains the word trust? If so, please feel free to post it, okay? I invite you to tell how it applies to you, too.

When God Says Go

Wednesday, April 27th, 2011

When God gives a divine assignment, our human tendency is to say, “Who, me? I can’t do that.” Fear looms, and we offer excuses such as, “I’m not smart enough,” or “I don’t have the skills necessary.”

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Gideon’s story is a prime example. When God tells him to rescue Israel from the Midianites, he immediately focuses on his inadequacy. “But Lord, how can I rescue Israel? My clan is the weakest in the whole tribe of Manasseh, and I am the least in my entire family!” (Judges 6:15)

Sound familiar? I’m dealing with similar fears right now as I plan an event designed for business women. I’m convinced this is a God-given task and I’m moving forward, but part of me says, “Who, me? I don’t have anything to offer these corporate gals. Why would they want to come? What if no one registers? What if it’s a complete flop?”

Then I remember Gideon and God’s message to him: “Go with the strength you have, and rescue Israel from the Midianites. I am sending you” (v.14).

These words bring me courage. They assure me that, when God gives an assignment, He simply wants me to say yes and to move forward with whatever skills He’s given me now. “Go with the strength you have,” He says, and He looks after the details.

I also find courage in a promise God made, not once but twice. “I will be with you,” He said to Gideon (vv. 12,16). Herein lies the ultimate secret to overcoming fear. God’s presence in our lives—what more do we need? What more do I need as I move ahead with planning this event?

Can you relate to Gideon and me? If so, how does the command, “Go with the strength you have,” encourage you? How does God’s promised presence impact you?
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What Makes Believers Different?

Wednesday, February 16th, 2011

Scripture says Jesus’ followers are supposed to be salt and light, right? How does that happen? Here’s my two cents’ worth:

God’s presence is the key that sets us apart from the rest of the world. His Holy Spirit lives in us 24/7. If we allow Him full control, then He fills us with peace, patience, joy, gentleness, love, and wisdom. He teaches us how to behave in a people-respecting and God-honoring manner.

Practically speaking, that means we don’t yell and stamp our feet or slam the door behind us when we don’t get our own way. We don’t cheat on our income taxes. We stay true to our spouse. We turn off the TV when it’s broadcasting smut. Get the picture? God’s presence in us is supposed to make us different than the average Joe. But I think there’s more.

I believe His presence produces courage in us. Whether facing personal problems or global crisis, followers of Christ can emulate confidence. That doesn’t mean we never feel afraid, but it means we know how to deal with the fear when it strikes and we refuse to let it consume us.

When people look at us, they see something different – or at least they should! They ought to see character qualities and inner strength that attract them and cannot be counterfeited.

“For your presence among us sets your people and me apart from all other people on the earth,” said Moses (Exodus 33:16). I think he’s right. How about you?

 Question: How do you think God’s presence sets His people apart from all others on the earth?

World-Changing Women

Monday, February 1st, 2010

Hey, what’s the deal? I set this devotional to go out early this morning, and just discovered that it’s still sitting in the box. Sorry to anyone who looked for it earlier today. Anyhow….here it is.

What qualities characterize a world-changing woman? If I did a survey, the answers might include, but not be limited to, the following:

  • The ability to love others unconditionally and encourage them to develop their full potential.
  • The ability to discern right from wrong.
  • A servant’s heart.
  • Wisdom.
  • Prayer.
  • The ability to see obstacles as opportunities.

I’ve pondered this question in preparation for speaking at a retreat later this year, and I believe I’ve found another answer in Exodus 1. This passage tells the story of the Jews’ population growing in Egypt. The king grew anxious, afraid that the Israelites would soon overpower his nation. And so, he issued an evil order to two Hebrew midwives in particular: “Kill all the Jewish baby boys as soon as they are born. Allow only the baby girls to live” (v. 16).

How did the women respond? Not according to the king’s wishes, that’s for sure. “Because the midwives feared God, they refused to obey the king and allowed the boys to live, too” (v. 17).

In my opinion, the courage of these midwives – based on their love and respect for God – clearly marks them as world-changing women. Their honor for Him outweighed their fear of the king, and their actions proved it. As a result, they were willing to risk their lives to please Him rather than bow to an evil man’s edict.

How might I have responded in the same situation? If an evil king was pressuring me to do his dirty work, would I have said no, or would I have caved in and agreed? I can only hope that I’d display the same bravery as they did. I can only hope that I, too, would hold fast to what is true and right regardless of the cost.

May that be true of all of us today. When we face situations where we’re forced to choose between God and man, may we fear God more. May we be willing to sacrifice everything for His cause. And may we be counted among those who are truly world-changers.

What quality do you think a world-changing woman possesses?

Remembering Your Journey

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

Where has life’s journey taken you? Undoubtedly your path has led to a few mountaintops and through a few valleys. In some cases, it’s probably taken an unexpected detour or two – some delightful, others not. If you’re a follower of Jesus Christ, can you identify places along your journey where God has proven Himself faithful?

Personally, I can recall several such incidents. The most unforgettable was when our second child was born in Nepal and instantly diagnosed with hydrocephalus (too much water on the brain). We’d had a personnel interview with a career mission agency only one week prior because we hoped to devote the rest of our lives to the Nepalese people, but our daughter’s medical condition necessitated an immediate return to North America. Talk about a detour! And yet, in that very scary time, God proved Himself faithful.

He provided our little family with a place to housesit, gave my husband a good job, led us to a warm and loving church family, and paid for our child’s medical expenses through the Washington State Crippled Children’s Services. Was life easy along this detour? Not at all. But God was with us.

Another example was when I sensed God telling me to write. I remember going for a long walk every day and praying as I went. I’d say, “God, I desperately want to be a wise steward of my time, my energy, my talents, and my money. Please make Your will clear to me so I don’t waste them chasing after a silly whim of my own.” He answered.

First, He directed me to attend the Florida Christian Writers Conference, bringing impossible circumstances together to remove any doubt that this prompting was from Him. That’s where I learned how to write magazine articles. Several months (and many more walks and prayers later), He spoke to me in an audible voice, giving me the name of a woman to interview. I obeyed. One door after another began to open, and I walked through them (albeit sometimes with knocking knees). Each step of the way, God proved Himself faithful. Has it been an easy walk? Not at all. But God has been with me.

The New Year is only two weeks away. I don’t know what it holds. If it’s anything like the last two years, I may be in for a wild ride. Frankly, there are some aspects of my journey I’d rather not repeat, like watching elderly parents suffer and die (or worse yet, being overseas when they pass away). Or wondering how to pay next month’s bills, let alone the big expenses that come with owning an older home. Or struggling with the tension of wanting to write another book but not having the time to do it due to other ministry responsibilities. Or dealing with the disappointments that come with pouring one’s heart into ministry and not seeing results hoped for.

Yup, 2010 is a big unknown. At the same time, I know God will be faithful no matter what it holds. Micah 6:5 says, “…Remember your journey from Acacia to Gilgal, when I, the Lord, did everything I could to teach you about my faithfulness.” I plan to heed this advice; I’ll remember the journey in years past, and I’ll recall God’s faithfulness. And that’s where I’ll find joy and courage and strength for the days ahead.

How have you seen God’s faithfulness along your journey, my friend?

Wednesday, October 21st, 2009

God’s ways are soooo not our natural ways. Just look at the contrast…

God: be content                           Self: strive for more

God: forgive                                  Self: get even

God: wait                                        Self: get it now

God: give up your  rights         Self: demand them

God: surrender                             Self: resist

The latter example popped off the page at me this morning as I read Jeremiah 38:19. King Hezekiah had asked Jeremiah to tell him what the future held for his city. When Jeremiah gave him the news – “surrender to the Babylonians and all will be well with you” – the king adamantly refused. What was his reply? “But I’m afraid to surrender” (38:19).

How classic is that? How many times have I felt God’s nudge to give or forgive or get involved in some way. Rather than obeying Him, I’ve cringed and rationalized and made excuses. Why? Bottom line – fear.

I’m afraid to surrender completely to God. I’m afraid of the what-ifs – What if He asks more of me than I want to give? What if things don’t turn out the way I wish? What if life takes an unwanted detour? And so I stand before the all-knowing, all-powerful, all-loving God and say, “Surrender to You? I don’t think so – that’s too scary. I’ll do life my way instead.”

My heart breaks at the thought of how I’ve affronted this One who sent His Son to die on my behalf. Each time I’ve refused to surrender to His commands, I’ve declared myself wiser than He. My attitude and actions have proven once again that my knowledge of Him lacks depth and intimacy.

Can you relate? Have you refused to obey God’s nudges? If so, ask Him to examine your heart and show you if fear is holding you captive. Then ask Him for the strength and courage to defy that fear and to place your trust in Him completely.

Let’s choose today to say yes to God. May the words I’m afraid to surrender not cross our lips.

Announcement: Moving From Fear to Freedom

Wednesday, August 26th, 2009

I’m doing a happy dance today…

Wait! That doesn’t sound very spiritual, does it? Perhaps I should say, “I’m feeling very blessed.” Whatever. The reason for my excitement is the same no matter how I express it. What’s it all about? I’ve had some wonderful feedback/ministry opportunities in the past couple of days regarding Moving From Fear to Freedom: A Woman’s Guide to Peace in Every Situation.Freedom -- Fox

One woman called today to say she feels God is telling her to use this book for a year-long study with a group of young mothers involved in the MOMS program (Mentoring Our Mothers Society). She said she read it this summer and found it incredible. Praise the Lord!

Before that phone call ended, my doorbell rang. There stood a woman I’ve met only once, while at a women’s retreat three years ago. She told me how her 30-year-old son died in a motorcycle accident in July, and how this book has transformed her life by giving her the courage to share her life’s journey, including this tragedy, with others. Her copy was  highlighted, and the corners of numerous pages were turned down.

I listened to her testimony in awe, praising God for how He’d directed me to write this book , given me the courage and ability to do the job, and provided a publisher who believed in its message (Harvest House Publishers).

Perhaps you’re looking for a book to share with a friend who’s been recently diagnosed with cancer, or whose marriage has recently broken up. Perhaps you’re in those circumtances yourself and needing encouragement. Maybe you’re looking for a book to study with a group this fall or winter. Consider Moving From Fear to Freedom – it’s making a huge difference in readers’ lives.  It’s available at bookstores everywhere. If you’ve read it and found it to be helpful, would you consider spreading the good word on Facebook and Twitter, or in your own blog? The message about overcoming fear is too important to fall by the wayside! Thank you!

Now read on for today’s devotional…

Reluctant Warriors

Saturday, April 25th, 2009

You know what baffles me? That God invites humans to participate with Him in building His kingdom. Does He really need our help? I doubt it – He can do anything He chooses whenever He chooses in whatever manner He chooses. Why He entrusts us with such a responsibility and allows us the privilege to partner with Him is beyond me, but clearly He wants us to be actively involved in some way.

This morning I read about the battle involving Sisera, the commander of King Jabin’s army. Judges 5:13-15 speaks of various tribes of people marching down against the mighty warriors. But then the tone changes. Verses 15b-17 say, “But in the tribe of Reuben there was great indecision. Why did you sit at home among the sheepfolds – to hear the shepherds whistle for their flocks? In the tribe of Reuben there was great indecision. Gilead remained east of the Jordan. And Dan, why did he stay home? Asher sat unmoved at the seashore, remaining in his harbors. But Zebulun risked his life, as did Naphtali, on the battlefield.”

It’s clear that God wanted the people’s involvement in fighting this battle. Some, like the tribes of Zebulun and Naphtali, chose to go; others chose to stay. What kept the latter from participating?

  • Indecision
  • Complacency – contented with the norm
  • Fear – remaining in the harbors where it was safe
  • Maybe even laziness? – sitting unmoved at the seashore

Verse 23 really grabs me: “‘Let the people of Meroz be cursed,’ said the angel of the Lord. ‘Let them be utterly cursed because they did not come to help the Lord, to help the Lord against the mighty warriors.’”

Again – did God really need the people’s help in fighting this battle? I don’t think so. But He wanted their participation. He wanted them to get involved.

There’s a spiritual battle going on in the world today. Satan is striving to steal and destroy  every man, woman, and child. God could wipe him out in a heartbeat. That time will come, but until then, we’re to go to battle. What’s stopping us? Indecision? Complacency? Fear? Maybe even laziness? I pray not!

“God, grant us eyes to see the world as You see it. Make us aware of the battle that rages to humanity’s souls. Give us Your fervor, Your passion for the lost. Grant us the courage to get involved wherever You direct us to go. May it not be said about us that we did not come to help You fight against the enemy. In Jesus’ name, amen.”

I Wanna be Like Caleb!

Friday, April 17th, 2009

Caleb is one of my all-time favorite OT characters. When Moses appointed him and 11 other men to spy out the Promised Land, he and Joshua were the only two who came back with a “Let’s go for it!” attitude. The others focused on the challenges and bred fear into the Israelites. As a result, the people disobeyed God and ended up wandering around in the wilderness for 40 years.

Joshua 14:7-14 tells it all. Caleb was a man of wisdom and courage. A man firm in his belief and behavior, unswayed by the fearful and faithless who surrounded him. What set him apart? Look at v. 7,8 – “I was forty years old when Moses, the servant of the Lord, sent me from Kadesh-barnea to explore the land of Canaan. I returned and gave from my heart a good report, but my brothers who went with me frightened the people and discouraged them from entering the Promised Land. For my part, I followed the Lord my God completely.”

Caleb followed the Lord completely. He’d embraced Him as his God, worshiping nothing else above Him. He saw the same challenges as his co-spies did when they surveyed the Promised Land, but he viewed them through God’s command and promise. He knew God was bigger than any obstacle they faced, and he trusted Him to give them victory. He followed God alone, not his feelings or the negative report made by the other spies.

I wanna be like Caleb. When presented with a challenge or seeming impossibility, I want to operate according to God’s truth, not according to what others say or feel. I want my life to exemplify rock-solid faith in an all-powerful God. I want to follow the Lord my God completely, and to encourage others to do the same. Let it never be said that I frightened others and discouraged them from pursuing God’s plans for them because of my feeble faith. Rather, let it be said that I wholeheartedly followed the Lord.

Is this your prayer, too?

Fear is a Big Deal, but God is Bigger

Friday, March 27th, 2009

Fear is a big deal to most people. That’s nothing new. It was a problem for the Israelites, too. Deuteronomy 7 tells the story of how God commanded the Israelites to conquer seven nations that outpowered them. Perhaps the very thought struck fear into their hearts, and they wondered how in the world they could ever go to battle against these nations and win (v. 17). (more…)