Posts Tagged ‘mourning’

From Mourning to Joy

Monday, February 6th, 2012

There it is. My word for 2012 – joy – has popped up again. This time it appeared in Psalm 30:5 and 11 – “Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning…You have turned my mourning into joyful dancing. You have taken away my clothes of mourning and clothed me with joy.”

What a promise for those who grieve! What a statement of hope for men and women in pain.

Last night my heart broke when I read my emails. Two women shared stories of losing their husbands recently – one through cancer, and the other through a marriage breakup. Both women are mourning their loss. Their nights are long and lonely, and their days are empty as they seek to make sense of what’s happened and how to embrace life with its new normal.

Joy isn’t part of these women’s vocabulary at this point on their journey. It might be difficult for them to even imagine that it will one day return, but it will. Slowly, slowly the pain will dissipate. Darkness will turn to dawn as God fills their hearts with an ever-increasing peace that passes human understanding. Laughter will live again.

I read these emails and whispered a prayer for these women. A prayer that they will soon be clothed with joy. That each morning will bring renewed hope. That each new day will bring restored faith and confidence in the One who loves them and knows their deepest hurts.

If you’re experiencing a nighttime of the soul, then this is my prayer for you, too. May God ease your pain and fill you with joy. May today put a dance – a joyful dance – into your step. You are loved!

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Be an Encourager

Monday, June 8th, 2009

The drama in David’s life continues when his son Absalom decides to overthrow him. (Perhaps some counseling in conflict resolution might have prevented this mess). At any rate, David and his followers are headin’ out of town to escape Absalom and his henchmen. It was an emotional time – 2 Samuel 15:30 says the king and his followers have covered their heads and bared their feet to signify mourning, and they’re weeping as they climb the Mount of Olives. They reach the summit, physically exhausted and emotionally spent. And in the darkness of that moment comes a kiss from heaven…

“David was just past the top of the hill when Ziba, the servant of Mephibosheth, caught up with him. He was leading two donkeys loaded with two hundred loaves of bread, one hundred clusters of raisins, one hundred bunches of summer fruit, and a skin of wine. ‘What are these for?’ the king asked Ziba. And Ziba replied, ‘The donkeys are for your people to ride on, and the bread and summer fruit are for the young men to eat. The wine is to be taken with you into the wilderness for those who become faint’” (2 Sam. 16:1,2).

Ziba – what a model of encouragement! He’s obviously tuned in to people’s needs and how to meet them in practical ways. The donkeys are for those who grow too tired to walk. The bread and summer fruit are for the young men, probably because they need strength for battle. The wine is to revive those who grow faint in the wilderness. And the raisins…well, those seem to be up for grabs. His thoughtful gesture likely brings huge encouragement to David and his followers, a reminder that they haven’t been forgotten. Someone cares about them in the midst of their despair.

As believers, we’re called to follow Ziba’s example. We’re surrounded by situations that provide opportunities to practice encouragement. Here are a few examples:

  • A neighbor, friend, or family member loses his job and financial resources run tight. We can help by buying groceries or gas.
  • Someone we know loses a loved one. We can encourage through practical acts of kindness such as a simple phone call to express condolences, providing housecleaning, supplying food, sending a card.
  • Someone we know has to move and needs help packing. We can encourage by providing that help.

The list of needs is endless…

  • A single mom needs help with yard work or with fixing her car.
  • A senior sits alone in the nursing home, staring out the window day after day.
  • Someone from your church family is hospitalized.
  • A woman would love to attend her church’s ladies’ retreat and would greatly benefit from it, but she simply can’t afford it.

No matter where we live or what our lot in life is, we can be encouragers. Let’s ask God to open our eyes to the needs of those around us and to give us willing hearts to bless them in practical ways as Ziba did with David and his followers.