Posts Tagged ‘suffering’

Kissing Self-Reliance Goodbye

Friday, August 27th, 2010

Life’s richest lessons are often learned in the hard places. As a correspondent for Power for Living, I’ve interviewed dozens of people whose testimonies prove this is true.

For instance…Tammy Trent, a Woman of Faith speaker whose husband drowned, told me how God had proved His presence and sufficiency to her in the hours and days following the accident. Diane Nichols told me of her husband’s incarceration for murder and how that tragedy brought them both to saving faith in Jesus Christ. And author Jennifer Rothschild told how losing her sight in her teen years stripped her of self-reliance but caused her to place her hope in God alone.   

Grace, Jennifer Rothschild, Grace's daughter Kim

“I speak about losing my physical sight, but the bottom line is that we all struggle with loss,” said Jennifer. “We all ask questions like ‘Why did God allow this?’ We all try to reconcile why life didn’t turn out the way we’d dreamed. But hope in Jesus transcends our circumstances. We receive that hope when we cling to Him alone, not the things we want Him to do for us, such as alleviate our suffering. I’m willing to receive the blindness until God heals me because within my blindness I’ve come to see how true hope comes only from Jesus.”

Many times, when we’re walking an easy path, we tend to grow confident in our abilities and know-how. We think we’re able to manage on our own, thank you. We sometimes fail to remember that we’re completely dependent on God for everything including our next breath. Sudden detours remind us that we can’t navigate the journey alone. Stripped of self-reliance, we’re suddenly thrust on God for wisdom, strength, provision, protection, and the list goes on and on.

Paul experienced this truth, too. In 2 Corinthians 1, he wrote about suffering for Christ and being weighed down by troubles. “We were crushed and overwhelmed beyond our ability to endure and we thought we would never live through it. In fact, we expected to die” (v. 8,9). But he didn’t end his letter there. He went on to say, “But as a result, we stopped relying on ourselves and learned to rely only on God, who raises the dead…We have placed our confidence in him, and he will continue to rescue us” (v. 10).

Paul’s words tell me that self-reliance is not an admirable quality. If life’s hard places are the cure-all that removes this attitude and replaces it with reliance on God, then those hard places are to be embraced as opportunities for spiritual growth. Would you agree?

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The Way I See Things

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

I’ve spent the last six weeks experimenting with various prescriptions for contact lenses. I finally found one that felt comfortable, but I couldn’t define anything more than a car’s length away. So, I traded those in for a different prescription, and guess what? I could see what the man in the moon was eating for breakfast. There was only one problem – my books and computer screen looked like fuzz. And so the process went on until I finally waved the white flag and decided to return to glasses.

I value being able to see life clearly…in more ways than one…but that doesn’t always happen. Sometimes situations come along that I just don’t “get.” For instance, why does God allow innocent Romanian children to be infected with HIV when they receive their childhood vaccinations? Why does He allow stage 3 ovarian cancer to strike the young woman recently married? Why does He allow a rare form of inoperable liver cancer to strike a mother with two young sons? I see suffering happen all around me, and sometimes it’s difficult to process.

Peter felt the same way. Matthew 16:21-23 says that Jesus told his disciples about His upcoming suffering, death, and resurrection. “But Peter took him aside and began to reprimand him for saying such things. ‘Heaven forbid, Lord,’ he said. ‘This will never happen to you!’” His response revealed limited spiritual vision. He simply didn’t see God’s sovereign plan for man’s redemption.

How did Jesus respond? He turned to Peter and said, “Get away from me, Satan! You are a dangerous trap to me. You are seeing things merely from a human point of view, not from God’s.”

My first impulse is to defend Peter. “C’mon, Jesus…give the guy a break. He loves You and doesn’t want to see You suffer and die.” But the more I ponder Jesus’ answer, the more I sense His fervor, His earnest and desperate desire for Peter to see suffering from God’s point of view. So vital is having a heavenly perspective that He called Peter “Satan” and said that looking at life from a human point of view made him a dangerous trap.

Jesus’ words force me to sit up and pay attention. Obviously seeing suffering from God’s point of view matters, and it matters a lot. When I’m tempted to look at pain and say, “Heaven forbid that this is happening. Make it go away!” then I need to ask myself whether I’m seeing it through my own short-sightedness or through God’s eternal lens.

Viewing suffering merely from a human point of view is a no-go, according to Jesus. Why? Perhaps because we might grow bitter. Angry. Cynical. We might fall into the trap of self-pity. We might limit God with our prayers. Or we might miss His purpose altogether.

God wants us to view suffering through His eyes because He has a purpose that reaches far beyond our limited imagination. Will you join me in asking Him to change our vision?

“Father, guard us from short-sightedness. When things happen that we don’t understand, please grant us the ability to see life from Your perspective. You are God; we are not. Amen.”

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Feeling versus Knowing

Tuesday, January 20th, 2009

Amen to the comment about yesterday’s post! When Joseph was betrayed by his family and then thrown into prison for being lied about, I wonder how he felt. Did he feel like God was with him? Or did he have to choose to believe it?

Therein lies the challenge for real life, eh? Heaven help us from living life based on our feelings. Sheesh, we can get ourselves into a lot of trouble that way. And we can find ourselves in a pit of despair, too. The enemy just loves to mess with our minds, feeding us lies to discourage us when we’re going through tough stuff. We have to fight back by filling our minds with God’s truth and choosing to believe it.

When we live according to God’s truth, we can overcome all the negatives that the enemy throws our way. And we can flourish in the midst of the challenges. Joseph’s life proves that this is possible.

This morning I read more about Joseph’s story. Genesis 41:52 says this: “Joseph named his second son Ephraim, for he said, ‘God has made me fruitful in this land of my suffering.’” This really challenged me to think about my response to difficulties.

Could I say that God makes me fruitful in my suffering? Do good things result from my response to hard times? Or do I tend to curl up in a fetal position and wish the world would go away? Do I harbor bitterness? Do I whine about my circumstances and compare my lot to others who never seem to have problems?

I sure hope it’s not the latter. I want to learn to embrace difficulties as opportunities to bear fruit, more fruit, and even MORE fruit!

How about you? If you have a story about how God produced fruit through suffering in your life, I’d love for you to tell us about it here.

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