Posts Tagged ‘suffering’

The Way I See Things

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

I’ve spent the last six weeks experimenting with various prescriptions for contact lenses. I finally found one that felt comfortable, but I couldn’t define anything more than a car’s length away. So, I traded those in for a different prescription, and guess what? I could see what the man in the moon was eating for breakfast. There was only one problem – my books and computer screen looked like fuzz. And so the process went on until I finally waved the white flag and decided to return to glasses.

I value being able to see life clearly…in more ways than one…but that doesn’t always happen. Sometimes situations come along that I just don’t “get.” For instance, why does God allow innocent Romanian children to be infected with HIV when they receive their childhood vaccinations? Why does He allow stage 3 ovarian cancer to strike the young woman recently married? Why does He allow a rare form of inoperable liver cancer to strike a mother with two young sons? I see suffering happen all around me, and sometimes it’s difficult to process.

Peter felt the same way. Matthew 16:21-23 says that Jesus told his disciples about His upcoming suffering, death, and resurrection. “But Peter took him aside and began to reprimand him for saying such things. ‘Heaven forbid, Lord,’ he said. ‘This will never happen to you!’” His response revealed limited spiritual vision. He simply didn’t see God’s sovereign plan for man’s redemption.

How did Jesus respond? He turned to Peter and said, “Get away from me, Satan! You are a dangerous trap to me. You are seeing things merely from a human point of view, not from God’s.”

My first impulse is to defend Peter. “C’mon, Jesus…give the guy a break. He loves You and doesn’t want to see You suffer and die.” But the more I ponder Jesus’ answer, the more I sense His fervor, His earnest and desperate desire for Peter to see suffering from God’s point of view. So vital is having a heavenly perspective that He called Peter “Satan” and said that looking at life from a human point of view made him a dangerous trap.

Jesus’ words force me to sit up and pay attention. Obviously seeing suffering from God’s point of view matters, and it matters a lot. When I’m tempted to look at pain and say, “Heaven forbid that this is happening. Make it go away!” then I need to ask myself whether I’m seeing it through my own short-sightedness or through God’s eternal lens.

Viewing suffering merely from a human point of view is a no-go, according to Jesus. Why? Perhaps because we might grow bitter. Angry. Cynical. We might fall into the trap of self-pity. We might limit God with our prayers. Or we might miss His purpose altogether.

God wants us to view suffering through His eyes because He has a purpose that reaches far beyond our limited imagination. Will you join me in asking Him to change our vision?

“Father, guard us from short-sightedness. When things happen that we don’t understand, please grant us the ability to see life from Your perspective. You are God; we are not. Amen.”

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Feeling versus Knowing

Tuesday, January 20th, 2009

Amen to the comment about yesterday’s post! When Joseph was betrayed by his family and then thrown into prison for being lied about, I wonder how he felt. Did he feel like God was with him? Or did he have to choose to believe it?

Therein lies the challenge for real life, eh? Heaven help us from living life based on our feelings. Sheesh, we can get ourselves into a lot of trouble that way. And we can find ourselves in a pit of despair, too. The enemy just loves to mess with our minds, feeding us lies to discourage us when we’re going through tough stuff. We have to fight back by filling our minds with God’s truth and choosing to believe it.

When we live according to God’s truth, we can overcome all the negatives that the enemy throws our way. And we can flourish in the midst of the challenges. Joseph’s life proves that this is possible.

This morning I read more about Joseph’s story. Genesis 41:52 says this: “Joseph named his second son Ephraim, for he said, ‘God has made me fruitful in this land of my suffering.’” This really challenged me to think about my response to difficulties.

Could I say that God makes me fruitful in my suffering? Do good things result from my response to hard times? Or do I tend to curl up in a fetal position and wish the world would go away? Do I harbor bitterness? Do I whine about my circumstances and compare my lot to others who never seem to have problems?

I sure hope it’s not the latter. I want to learn to embrace difficulties as opportunities to bear fruit, more fruit, and even MORE fruit!

How about you? If you have a story about how God produced fruit through suffering in your life, I’d love for you to tell us about it here.

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